Thomas & Emily
Saturday, November Seventh, Two Thousand Twenty-Six • Sparta, NJ
73 Days To Go!
Thomas & Emily
Saturday, November Seventh, Two Thousand Twenty-Six • Sparta, NJ
73 Days To Go!
Q + A
What is the dress code?
Dress code is formal attire! Think suits, dresses, jumpsuits. We ask that you not wear jeans or casual wear. Ladies, please avoid white; if possible, try to avoid shades of green.
Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
Please don't wear white (!!) and avoid green as much as possible -- our bridal party called dibs on that one
Where are you registered?
We are registered at Amazon, Target, Pottery Barn, & the Knot :)
Can I bring a plus-one?
Unfortunately, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. If you received a plus-one, it will be addressed on your invitation and they will show in the RSVP section of the website.
As RSVPs come in, we may be able to re-evaluate the plus one situation; however, we ask that you not ask the bride & groom about adding a plus one!
Is my child invited?
We love your little ones; however, we respectfully request no little ones (unless they are included on your invitation/RSVP) on this night!
How can I RSVP?
The ONLY way to RSVP to the wedding is through the tab on the wedding website. Texts, phone calls, carrier pigeons, etc will not be counted.
What is the bar sitch?
Open bar! My gift to you
Will there be someplace to stay?
Yes -- please see the travel tab for deets
When does the hotel block close?
October 6th!
Is there going to be transportation available?
Yes! Refer to the travel tab
What time should I arrive?
Our ceremony starts at 4 PM -- our venue asks that you not arrive earlier than 3:30 PM
Is parking available?
Yes, valet parking is available for those who opt to drive to the venue!
Is the venue inside or outside?
We are hoping for an outdoor ceremony! Otherwise, everything will be indoors. If you want to see what exactly we're working with, feel free to check out their Instagram @rockislandlakeclub
What is the address of the venue?
Rock Island Lake Club
485 Glen Road
Sparta, NJ 07871
Do I have to RSVP?
Literally yes. Especially if you want to eat.
What is the RSVP deadline?
October 1st!
SOS I have a food allergy/dietary restriction -- what do I do?
Have no fear, we have OPTIONS for you. When you submit your RSVP please just make sure you include any of your food needs!
Can I take pictures/video during the ceremony?
Of course -- but we respectfully ask that you make sure not to get in the way of our lovely photographers (they're really great at their job!!) or our fantastic content creator! We are paying them to capture our best angles and want them to be able to do their jobs!
Will there be an after party?
Yes! The hotel bar will be open for an after-party!
What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?
Unfortunately, if you miss the deadline we will count that as a ‘No’. We have a strict timeline to ensure that our vendors have all necessary information to make the day a success! The bride and groom will not be able to accept any texts or calls after the window closes as an RSVP either.
I have some other question that you did not address which is weird because you are the most organized bride ever
Feel free to text the bride (845-427-1886) or the groom (845-549-0161) with your question! We probably won't bite your head off
Can I still come even if I don’t RSVP?
No